Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life.
From the definition of friendship, we can see how important a friend in our live. Friend can be classified into two kinds of true friends and common friends. For me friend is someone who interacts with us, company us and help us. But True friend is like a single soul, dwelling in two bodies. They can complement each other, receive, complete, and fit in many ways, never leaves me alone in happy or sad, always guide me in a right way and support me when I’m down. Maybe in whole of your life you will be easy to get friend than true friend.
Quality of true friends can see from the character. Because character is very sensitive in friendship, many friendships was failed because have of the lack skewer between the two characteristic. You cannot just look from the performance but you must look from the inside, because it is a decisive person he became a case of what.
Family and environment also can be our consideration to get a true friend. Why? Because family and environment is one of the most powerful factor in influencing the character. If they stay in a good family and environment certainly they can be a good person with a good character also. But if they have bad family and environment it is can make them to become a tough and has a bad character. So, before you choose your friend make sure they have the quality of a good friend.
Tom Ponting Said:
on December 29, 2009 at 9:15 am
A friend is who share their thoughts, happiness, sad, worries and secret with each other. She/He will always be there when you need her/him. As long as you wish to share your happiness/sorrow. They will always support and give you a listening ear and assistance.